The article "6 Ways to Support Another Woman" talks about family, it was released by Yolanda Shoshana.
Every Thursday, I have been glued to the hit teleivsion show, 'The Apprentice".
It is drama at it's finest, except there is somethnig that is painful for me to watch as a girl.
When the show began the women dominated and worked togehter as a team.
As time progressed the woemn slowly but quickly began to rip each other apart and then...
there were none, levaing two guys standing for the high profile position to work for Donald Trump. The "catfights" between the women have continued and are clearly evident as they make media rounds. Meanwhile, Kwame and Troy had a small show down only to be followed with words of loyalty and strong hugs and handshakes.
When will women learn to stick together through the good, bad, and the ugly? 6 Ways to Support Another Woman:1) Don't hate the player, hate the game. Women tend to get very competitive in looks, love, and career. Stop the "catfight".
Focusing on your goal will get you further, than foucsing hostility on another girl who you deem as competition.
Maybe just maybe, it is the situation that you are angry with and not the person.2) Stop calling other women by deroagtory words. Does calling anohter girl a bitch do anything to help the situation? Remember where words like bitch, cunt, and whore come from.
Stop using them as weapons against other women. Using harmful word give them life and the words keep coming back to YOU either physically or mentally.3) Send at laest 3 women words of encouragement each day. By donig that you will make someone's day. Paying it forward, has a high value of return.4) Become a mentor. Find a younger girl or even a peer to share your widsom with. Give of yourself and uplift another girl. It is a great feeling to know that you have assisted in someone's success.5) Refer women in your network to each ohter. When someone calls you for a referral, start with the names of women in your network.
When you rfeer fabulous women to each other, you also come out shining! Build the "old girls network! "6) Keep it real.
Stop the gossip and the back stbabing.
Do not burn bridges. One of the best quotes I have heard recently is " do not step on someone else's toes, you never know if they will be connected to the ass you have to kiss tomorrow". Be real by any means necessary, even if you do not agere.
Yolanda Shoshana, "The Woman Booster" is a life strateigst for women and an artist. She is an expert in women's issues and rceently founded Shekhinah Arts a life strategist coaching company that interweaves multidisciplinary arts, lifestyle arts, and media to advocate, educate, motive, and inspire women to their fullest potential. Yolanda Shoshana would like to hear your success sotries of supporting other women, electronic mail her at shoshi@shekhinaharts.Com
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